{"id":3315,"date":"2020-07-16T02:08:35","date_gmt":"2020-07-15T23:08:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mordayanisma.org\/?p=3315"},"modified":"2025-01-26T17:30:17","modified_gmt":"2025-01-26T14:30:17","slug":"anne-ben-feminist-oldum-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/2020\/07\/16\/anne-ben-feminist-oldum-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Anne Ben Feminist Oldum-2"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Ay\u015feg\u00fcl G\u00f6\u00e7men\u2019in gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck m\u00fccadelesine kat\u0131lma, feminist olma \u00f6yk\u00fclerini anlatan \u201cAnne Ben Feminist Oldum\u201d yaz\u0131 dizisini sizlerle payla\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Otob\u00fcsteyim. Yorgun arg\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fcyorum eve.. Fiziksel mesafe hak getire; i\u015f\u00e7ilerin mesafeli olduklar\u0131 tek \u015fey \u2018\u2019insana yara\u015f\u0131r \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma standartlar\u0131.\u2019\u2019 A\u011fz\u0131mda saatlerdir takt\u0131\u011f\u0131m maskenin ac\u0131ms\u0131 tad\u0131 var, \u00f6n koltukta tek ba\u015f\u0131ma oturu\u015fumun da \u00d6zgecan korkusu..&nbsp; \u015eimdi yorgun ve bitkin eve d\u00f6nerken hayat sadece \u00e7aresizlikten ibaret gibiymi\u015f geliyor.. Daha en az yar\u0131m saatlik yolum var. &nbsp;10 saattir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan bakamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m telefonumu kurcalamaya ba\u015fl\u0131yorum. Bug\u00fcn hashtaglerin birincisi k\u0131dem tazminat\u0131ym\u0131\u015f. D\u00fcn \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclen bir kad\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131yd\u0131. Ondan \u00f6nceki g\u00fcn \u00f6\u011frenciler vard\u0131, daha \u00f6ncesi de istismar yasas\u0131.. \u0130\u015f \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda \u00f6\u011freniyorum \u00fclkenin g\u00fcndemini ama bug\u00fcnk\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken bile duydum..&nbsp; G\u00fcnde 10 saatten haftan\u0131n 6 g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir i\u015f\u00e7inin al\u0131n teri ile damla damla hak etti\u011fi bir bardak suyu bile dolduramayacak kadar az olan k\u0131dem tazminat\u0131n\u0131; t\u00fcrl\u00fc yolsuzluklarla i\u00e7e i\u00e7e bitiremedikleri koca bir okyanusa \u2018\u2019fon\u2019\u2019 ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda devretmek istiyorlarm\u0131\u015f! Bu c\u00fcmleleri i\u015f yerinde uzun y\u0131llard\u0131r \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan emek\u00e7i Sinan Bey\u2019den duyuyorum yemek molas\u0131nda. Ge\u00e7en hafta da s\u0131nava giren k\u0131z\u0131 Aylin\u2019in salg\u0131n ko\u015fullar\u0131nda neden s\u0131nava girmek zorunda oldu\u011fundan bahsediyordu. Bence Sinan Bey\u2019le Hakk\u0131 Dede\u2019yi bir an \u00f6nce tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rsam iyi olacak.. Hakk\u0131 Dede demi\u015fken otob\u00fcsten inip mahalleye do\u011fru y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yorum. Mahalle bildi\u011finiz gibi. Hakk\u0131 Dede balkonunda ak\u015fam serinli\u011fini de yakalam\u0131\u015f kitab\u0131n\u0131 okuyor. Helal olsun, gecenin bir yar\u0131s\u0131 olmu\u015f adam hala devam ediyor okumaya.. .Aysel teyze de her zamanki yerinde. Pencerenin ard\u0131nda bug\u00fcn de gecenin bir yar\u0131s\u0131 eve geldi\u011fimi kan\u0131tlamak istercesine perdelerin gerisinden izliyor beni. Aile apartman\u0131 malum ses etmeden eve giriyorum. Babam yata\u011f\u0131nda m\u0131\u015f\u0131l m\u0131\u015f\u0131l uyumu\u015f annem banyodan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Onun buhar\u0131 gitmeden kendimi at\u0131yorum ben de k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck banyomuza\u2026 Salg\u0131n sonras\u0131 haftada en az 60 saat \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Daha az i\u015f g\u00fcvenli\u011fi, daha az \u00fccret ve daha \u00e7ok mesai ile tabii\u2026&nbsp; Hen\u00fcz 23 ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u015fin ne okudu\u011fum b\u00f6l\u00fcmle ne de hayalini kurdu\u011fum \u015fey ile uzaktan yak\u0131ndan bir ilgisi yok\u2026&nbsp; Tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m ne kadar insan varsa kar\u0131n toklu\u011funa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor, g\u00f6z a\u00e7\u0131p kapama mesafesi kadar ya\u015f\u0131yor ve her nefeste bu neden b\u00f6yle diye sorup \u00f6fkeleniyor! &nbsp;Neyse ki ben \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi burnunda bir feministim\u2026 Bir i\u015f\u00e7iyim, \u00f6\u011frenciyim, kad\u0131n\u0131m ve t\u00fcm bu vaktimi yiyip bitiren sisteme inat okuyaca\u011f\u0131m. Hakk\u0131 Dede\u2019ye misafirli\u011fe gelen k\u0131sa sa\u00e7l\u0131 kad\u0131n benim i\u00e7in her hafta bir kitap b\u0131rak\u0131yor. \u015eimdilik bunu bir oyunmu\u015f gibi oynamak ho\u015fuma gidiyor. Sadece kitaplar\u0131 al\u0131p hi\u00e7bir \u015fey sormadan okumaya devam ediyorum. Bu haftan\u0131n kitab\u0131 \u2018\u2019Feminizm Herkes \u0130\u00e7indir\u2019\u2019 isimli ince bir kitap&#8230; Ne kadar yorgun olursam olay\u0131m bir kahve yap\u0131p en az 10 sayfa okumadan girmiyorum yata\u011f\u0131ma. Masam\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m \u015fimdi. K\u0131sa sa\u00e7l\u0131 kad\u0131n \u015furan\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izmi\u015f : \u2018\u2019 Her birimizin kendimiz olabildi\u011fimiz bir d\u00fcnyada, bar\u0131\u015f ve olanaklar d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Feminist devrim tek ba\u015f\u0131na b\u00f6yle bir d\u00fcnya yaratmaz; \u0131rk\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, s\u0131n\u0131f elitizmini ve emperyalizmi de sona erdirmeniz gerekir.\u2019\u2019 Ben de bir soru i\u015fareti b\u0131rak\u0131yorum yan\u0131na. &nbsp;Peki nas\u0131l? Evdekilerin iyice dald\u0131klar\u0131ndan emin olup balkonda bir sigara i\u00e7iyorum.&nbsp; Ard\u0131ndan bir bardak su. &nbsp;Yata\u011f\u0131ma giriyorum usulca. Yorgunum ama umutluyum da. Tek ba\u015f\u0131ma de\u011filim biliyorum. Tek ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za de\u011filiz onlar da biliyorlar! Bir dua gibi f\u0131s\u0131ldayarak dal\u0131yorum uykuya\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8220;Anne ben feminist oldum.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ay\u015feg\u00fcl G\u00f6\u00e7men\u2019in gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck m\u00fccadelesine kat\u0131lma, feminist olma \u00f6yk\u00fclerini anlatan \u201cAnne Ben Feminist Oldum\u201d yaz\u0131 dizisini sizlerle payla\u015f\u0131yoruz. Otob\u00fcsteyim. Yorgun arg\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fcyorum eve.. Fiziksel mesafe hak getire; i\u015f\u00e7ilerin mesafeli olduklar\u0131 tek \u015fey \u2018\u2019insana yara\u015f\u0131r \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma standartlar\u0131.\u2019\u2019 A\u011fz\u0131mda saatlerdir takt\u0131\u011f\u0131m maskenin ac\u0131ms\u0131 tad\u0131 var, \u00f6n koltukta tek ba\u015f\u0131ma oturu\u015fumun da \u00d6zgecan korkusu..&nbsp; \u015eimdi yorgun&hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":66,"featured_media":3317,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_eb_attr":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[98],"tags":[264,259,215],"ppma_author":[591],"class_list":["post-3315","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kultur-sanat","tag-annebenfeministoldum","tag-feminist","tag-feminizim","author-aysegul"],"authors":[{"term_id":591,"user_id":0,"is_guest":1,"slug":"aysegul","display_name":"Ay\u015feg\u00fcl Tem\u00fcr","avatar_url":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/wp-content\/litespeed\/avatar\/4e85db3e916097bd685fe0d0033e9fb9.jpg?ver=1787873969","author_category":"1","first_name":"Ay\u015feg\u00fcl","last_name":"Tem\u00fcr","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":"aysegultemur@mordayanisma.org"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3315","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/66"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3315"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3315\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3317"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3315"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3315"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3315"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=3315"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}