{"id":3274,"date":"2020-06-22T23:54:34","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T20:54:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mordayanisma.org\/?p=3274"},"modified":"2025-01-26T17:30:18","modified_gmt":"2025-01-26T14:30:18","slug":"anne-ben-feminist-oldum-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/2020\/06\/22\/anne-ben-feminist-oldum-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Anne Ben Feminist Oldum-1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ay\u015feg\u00fcl G\u00f6\u00e7men&#8217;in gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n\u0131n  \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck m\u00fccadelesine kat\u0131lma, feminist olma \u00f6yk\u00fclerini anlatan &#8220;Anne Ben Feminist Oldum&#8221; yaz\u0131 dizisini sizlerle payla\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bug\u00fcn aylar sonra ilk defa sosyalle\u015fmek i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorum. \u0130lk defa dediysem pandemi boyunca evde oturdu\u011fumu sanmay\u0131n\u2026&nbsp; Tabii ki i\u015fe gittim ve market al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fi i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m. Her kasaya geli\u015fimde kasiyerin yorgun ve \u00f6fkeli bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp ellerimdekini alelacele po\u015fetlere t\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131m\u2026 Nihayet po\u015fetlerin 25 kuru\u015fa sat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011freten ayn\u0131 kasiyer bu defa markete maskesiz girmenin yasak oldu\u011funu defalarca tekrarlamaktan olsa gerek bana hi\u00e7 ho\u015f geldiniz demedi. Her market d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc gizli sakl\u0131 i\u00e7ti\u011fim sigaran\u0131n kokusu da\u011f\u0131ls\u0131n diye mahallede dolan\u0131p, pencerede beni bekleyen Hakk\u0131 dedenin po\u015fetlerini de verip \u00f6yle girdim eve&#8230; Hakk\u0131 dede\u2026 Hakk\u0131 dede bizim mahallenin kom\u00fcnist dedesidir\u2026 Onun iki \u00fcst kat\u0131nda da Aysel teyze oturuyor\u2026 Aram\u0131zda kals\u0131n ama ben ona k\u0131saca \u201cmahalle bask\u0131s\u0131\u201d diyorum. 3 sene \u00f6nce beni bir erkekle y\u00fcr\u00fcrken g\u00f6r\u00fcp anneme yeti\u015ftirdi\u011finden beri ad\u0131 bu. Ama merhametli kad\u0131n\u0131md\u0131r. Her markete gidi\u015fimde ona da sorar\u0131m bir ihtiyac\u0131 var m\u0131 diye\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne diyordum, bug\u00fcn uzun zaman sonra ilk defa d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m\u2026 Soka\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kma yasaklar\u0131n\u0131 bile delen \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma g\u00fcnlerimi saymazsak hep evdeydim. Evdeydim dediysem de her g\u00fcn ayn\u0131 \u015feyler i\u015fte\u2026&nbsp; Annemin \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 elektrikli s\u00fcp\u00fcrgenin sesi ile uyan\u0131\u015f\u2026 Babam\u0131n ayn\u0131 sese uyanmas\u0131, anneme ba\u011f\u0131rmas\u0131 ve ard\u0131ndan gelen sessizlik\u2026 Sonra benim huzursuzlan\u0131p yataktan kalkmam&#8230; Birbirlerine ast\u0131klar\u0131 suratlar\u0131 daha da hal\u0131lara yap\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n diye kahvalt\u0131 \u00f6ncesi kahveleri yapmam ve ortam\u0131n yumu\u015famas\u0131\u2026 Kahvalt\u0131 fasl\u0131, temizlik, televizyon, g\u00fcn ortas\u0131 at\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131, temizli\u011fi, ak\u015fam yeme\u011fi, televizyon, kalan son bula\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 makineye dizi\u015f, odalara \u00e7ekilme ve kapan\u0131\u015f\u2026 Annem buna nas\u0131l dayan\u0131yor diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.&nbsp; Sadece annem de de\u011fil&#8230; G\u00fcnlerdir evde olunca kom\u015fular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da daha yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131maya ba\u015flad\u0131m\u2026 Apartmanlar \u00f6yle dip dibe ve dairelerin aras\u0131 \u00f6yle k\u00e2\u011f\u0131ttan ki art\u0131k her evin i\u00e7indeki as\u0131l vir\u00fcs hakk\u0131nda bir fikrim var. G\u00fcr sesli ve sanki d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en hakl\u0131 insan\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi konu\u015fan bir erke\u011fin k\u00fcf\u00fcr dolu s\u00f6zleri&#8230;&nbsp; Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda her defas\u0131nda sesi daha az \u00e7\u0131kan, kelimeleri endi\u015fe dolu ba\u015fka bir kad\u0131n ve onun a\u011f\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 an duvarlara \u00e7arp\u0131p da\u011f\u0131lan cevaplar\u0131&#8230; Korkudan odalara \u00e7ekilen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kapanan kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n sesleri ya da araya girmek isteyen ya\u015f\u0131 daha b\u00fcy\u00fck olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6fke n\u00f6betleri\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bizim evde durumlar biraz daha iyi. Buras\u0131 orta s\u0131n\u0131f bir mahalle ve biz mahallenin durumu en iyi olanlar\u0131ndan\u0131z\u2026 Durum mu? Bu mahallede durum demek ayl\u0131k kazanc\u0131n\u0131n ne oldu\u011fu ile ilgili bir \u015feydir sadece\u2026&nbsp; Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n neden \u015fiddete maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131, baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n neden online derslerine kat\u0131lamad\u0131\u011f\u0131, yan evden gelen sesler i\u00e7in arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m polisin neden bir saat sonra geldi\u011fi, i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131lan mahalle sakinlerinden birinin hi\u00e7 sakin kalamay\u0131p balkonunu sabaha kadar ka\u00e7 kere ar\u015f\u0131nlad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ha bir de hi\u00e7 planlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir anda hamile kalan Melek ablan\u0131n nas\u0131l k\u00fcrtaj olabilece\u011fi gibi meseleler \u2018\u2019durum\u2019\u2019 dedikleri \u015feye dahil de\u011fildir bu mahallede.&nbsp; Dedim ya g\u00fcnler sonra ilk defa d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m bug\u00fcn&#8230; Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey eskisi gibi de\u011fil&#8230; Kafeler, d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki insanlar, i\u00e7indeki insanlar, konu\u015ftuklar\u0131, i\u015fsizlik, yoksulluk i\u00e7in konu\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131&#8230; Ben de eskisi gibi de\u011filim&#8230; Kafas\u0131 kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olarak girdi\u011fim karantinadan kafas\u0131nda baz\u0131 \u015feyleri netle\u015ftirmi\u015f bir kad\u0131n olarak \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorum. \u015eimdi d\u00fcnya \u2018\u2019normalle\u015firken\u2019\u2019 bana hi\u00e7 de normal gelmeyen \u015feylerin pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp bir yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n zaman\u0131d\u0131r. Sadece \u00f6l\u00fcmle de\u011fil bizi \u00f6l\u00fcme g\u00f6t\u00fcren \u015feylerle de defalarca y\u00fcz y\u00fcze geldik hepimiz.&nbsp; Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve \u015fiddete maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00fclkede \u00fczerine bir de eme\u011fim s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcrken yeniden \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmeyi beklemeyece\u011fim. Bu y\u00fczden eve d\u00f6n\u00fcyorum \u00f6nce\u2026&nbsp; Bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemem gerek anneme\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u2018\u2019Anne ben feminist oldum\u2019\u2019<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ay\u015feg\u00fcl G\u00f6\u00e7men&#8217;in gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck m\u00fccadelesine kat\u0131lma, feminist olma \u00f6yk\u00fclerini anlatan &#8220;Anne Ben Feminist Oldum&#8221; yaz\u0131 dizisini sizlerle payla\u015f\u0131yoruz. Bug\u00fcn aylar sonra ilk defa sosyalle\u015fmek i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorum. \u0130lk defa dediysem pandemi boyunca evde oturdu\u011fumu sanmay\u0131n\u2026&nbsp; Tabii ki i\u015fe gittim ve market al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fi i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m. Her kasaya geli\u015fimde kasiyerin yorgun ve \u00f6fkeli bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp&hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":66,"featured_media":3279,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_eb_attr":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[98],"tags":[259,215],"ppma_author":[591],"class_list":["post-3274","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kultur-sanat","tag-feminist","tag-feminizim","author-aysegul"],"authors":[{"term_id":591,"user_id":0,"is_guest":1,"slug":"aysegul","display_name":"Ay\u015feg\u00fcl Tem\u00fcr","avatar_url":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/wp-content\/litespeed\/avatar\/4e85db3e916097bd685fe0d0033e9fb9.jpg?ver=1784243256","author_category":"1","first_name":"Ay\u015feg\u00fcl","last_name":"Tem\u00fcr","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":"aysegultemur@mordayanisma.org"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3274","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/66"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3274"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3274\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3279"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3274"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3274"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3274"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=3274"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}