{"id":2453,"date":"2020-05-02T17:40:20","date_gmt":"2020-05-02T14:40:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mordayanisma.org\/?p=2453"},"modified":"2025-01-26T16:55:35","modified_gmt":"2025-01-26T13:55:35","slug":"gelecegimizi-kaybetmeyecegiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/2020\/05\/02\/gelecegimizi-kaybetmeyecegiz\/","title":{"rendered":"Gelece\u011fimizi Kaybetmeyece\u011fiz"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>\u201cE\u011fer bir g\u00fcn yolunuzu kaybederseniz bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131n\u2026\u201d*<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00dclke g\u00fcndemi hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7e\u015fitli mecralar\u0131n\u0131 etkileyebiliyor. Okulda, i\u015f yerinde, bayramda, tatilde sohbetlerimiz, \u00fclkenin h\u0131zl\u0131 ve yak\u0131c\u0131 g\u00fcndemleriyle belirlenebiliyor. Eh k\u0131sa s\u00fcrelerde neler ya\u015fam\u0131yoruz ki\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015e\u00f6yle bir geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda baz\u0131 ya\u015fanan olaylar\u0131n, s\u0131cak g\u00fcndemlerin tesiri g\u00fcnlere s\u0131k\u0131\u015fabiliyor. Fakat g\u00fcndemi yaratan sorunlar\u0131n devaml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla paralel bir \u015fekilde; o g\u00fcndemlerin arka plan\u0131 olduk\u00e7a geni\u015f ve uzun bir zaman\u0131 kaps\u0131yor.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hat\u0131rlayal\u0131m. G\u00fcnlerce kay\u0131p olarak aranan Eyl\u00fcl ve Leyla\u2019n\u0131n cans\u0131z bedenlerine ula\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 haberini alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Duymas\u0131 da yazmas\u0131 da zor olan, toplumsal infiale yol a\u00e7an bu haberler, idam ve had\u0131m cezalar\u0131n\u0131n tekrar g\u00fcndeme gelmesine yol a\u00e7t\u0131. Fakat minik bedenlerin ac\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcmlerini, \u201csonuca y\u00f6nelik cezalarla\u201d \u00f6rtbas etmeden irdelemek gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yaln\u0131zca o an ya\u015fanan ve belli bir zaman s\u00fcren tepkiye bakmak de\u011fil; neler oluyor, neden oluyor, bu vakalar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda nas\u0131l bir \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcme var buralara bakmak gerekiyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elbette ki tepkili olma, tepkiyi \u00f6rg\u00fctleme gereklili\u011fiyle birlikte\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c\u00c7ocuk, i\u015f\u00e7i, tecav\u00fcz, kay\u0131p, \u00f6l\u00fc bulundu, 4 ya\u015f\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0131rak\u0131n ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmlede g\u00f6rmeyi, ayn\u0131 kitab\u0131n i\u00e7inde dahi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz bu kelimeler, ku\u015fkusuz ki hepimizin y\u00fcre\u011fini s\u0131zlat\u0131yor. Ayn\u0131 yumru oturuyordur bo\u011faz\u0131m\u0131za, ve ayn\u0131 ac\u0131 yutkunmay\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yoruzdur. Toplumsal vicdan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ortakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, ayn\u0131 hissiyatlara kap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nadir durumlardand\u0131r belki de. \u00d6tekile\u015ftirmeden, ayr\u0131m yapmadan\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peki hepimiz ayn\u0131 s\u0131z\u0131y\u0131 ya\u015famam\u0131za ra\u011fmen, ayn\u0131 renkte g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6kmemize ra\u011fmen, neden tablo hala bu kadar vahim?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hangi tablo mu? Ortak \u00f6fkemizin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 istatistikler:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">G\u00fcnde istismara u\u011frayan ortalama \u00e7ocuk say\u0131s\u0131 21<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">8 y\u0131lda kaybolan \u00e7ocuk say\u0131s\u0131 104.531&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n i\u015f g\u00fcc\u00fcne kat\u0131lma oran\u0131 %20.3<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">5.5 y\u0131lda hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden \u00e7ocuk i\u015f\u00e7i say\u0131s\u0131 319<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y\u0131lda ortalama 17bin istismar davas\u0131n\u0131n cezas\u0131zl\u0131k oran\u0131 y\u00fczde 45&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">10 y\u0131lda istismara u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuk say\u0131s\u0131 300000+<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2015 y\u0131l\u0131nda i\u015flenen su\u00e7lar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklara y\u00f6nelik olma oran\u0131 y\u00fczde 46<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sorumlular\u0131 Tan\u0131yoruz<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evet! Sorumlular\u0131 tan\u0131yoruz. \u00d6yle \u00e7ok uzak bir yerde ya da pantolon altlar\u0131nda aramaya gerek yok.&nbsp; Televizyonu a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, okula gitti\u011fimizde, evde muhabbet oldu\u011funda g\u00f6rebiliriz su\u00e7lular\u0131, su\u00e7lu zihniyeti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 kendisine tecav\u00fcz eden ki\u015filerle evlendirmeye \u00f6ng\u00f6ren yasa tasar\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 sunanlar, \u2018bir kereden bir \u015fey olmaz, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn r\u0131zas\u0131yla yap\u0131lan i\u015fler\u2019 diyen bakanlar, istismar\u0131n ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6neren \u00f6nergeyi reddeden meclis, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla evlenilir diyen imam sorumludur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cK\u00f6t\u00fc niyetim yoktu\u201d diyen tecav\u00fczc\u00fcye beraat veren hakim, cinsiyet\u00e7i ve ayr\u0131mc\u0131 m\u00fcfredat haz\u0131rlayan g\u00f6revliler, \u00e7ocu\u011fu okul yerine \u201cya mesle\u011fe ya kocaya\u201d g\u00f6nderen \u2013 \u00e7ocu\u011fu bir birey olarak g\u00f6rmeyen aile, erkekli\u011fi y\u00fcceltmeyi kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklu\u011fu a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamay\u0131 adet haline getiren t\u00fcm yeti\u015fkinler sorumludur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eyl\u00fcl ve Leyla\u2019ya d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde, o minik bedenlerin katillerini, yaln\u0131zca onlar\u0131 katleden bir iki ki\u015fiyle s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 tutamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Bilakis b\u00f6yle bir tabloyla sorumlulu\u011fun \u00e7ok daha geni\u015f bir \u00e7er\u00e7evede oldu\u011fu g\u00fcnbeg\u00fcn ortada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla su\u00e7lar\u0131, cinayetleri m\u00fcnferitle\u015ftirmek, su\u00e7u pantolon alt\u0131na indirgemek, hormonlara ba\u011flamak, cezay\u0131 ve sorunu idamla, had\u0131mla halletmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f ve koku\u015fmu\u015f istismarc\u0131, hiyerar\u015fik zihniyeti g\u00f6rmezden gelmek; \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 yakla\u015fmaman\u0131n apa\u00e7\u0131k \u00f6rne\u011fidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sorunu ve Su\u00e7u Yok Et!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir sorunu, su\u00e7u ortadan kald\u0131rmak istiyorsan\u0131z, en az\u0131ndan o niyette iseniz; en ba\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fcp su\u00e7 i\u015flenmeden neler yap\u0131labilir, sorunun ve su\u00e7un olu\u015fumu nas\u0131l engellenir ona bakmak zorundas\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Binlerce, on binlerce \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131n\u0131 karartan, yok eden istatistiklere g\u00f6z ucuyla bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda dahi durum anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, arka plana ve biraz olsun derine inildi\u011finde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmak kolayla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neler yap\u0131labilir bir bakal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n g\u00fcvenli ve \u00fccretsiz bir \u015fekilde e\u011fitim ve sa\u011fl\u0131k hakk\u0131na ula\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130lkokuldan \u00fcniversiteye kadar toplumsal cinsiyet, cinsellik derslerini m\u00fcfredata eklemek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015f yerlerine kre\u015f a\u00e7mak, kamu sekt\u00f6r\u00fcnde ve \u00f6zel sekt\u00f6rde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlara toplumsal cinsiyet, cinsellik e\u011fitimi vermek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk Haklar\u0131na Dair S\u00f6zle\u015fmeyi ve Avrupa Konseyi \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Cinsel S\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fc ve \u0130stismara Kar\u015f\u0131 Korunmas\u0131 S\u00f6zle\u015fmesini hayata ge\u00e7irmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aile hekimli\u011fini pedagoglarla destekleyip \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fimini takip etmek. (Olas\u0131 bir istismar durumunu travmatik boyutlara ula\u015fmadan, \u00f6nlemeyi sa\u011flamak)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Okullar\u0131n rehberlik birimlerini aktifle\u015ftirmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklar ve ebeveynler i\u00e7in eri\u015fimi kolay ihbar hatlar\u0131 kurmak. \u00c7ocuklara kendilerini korumay\u0131 ve savunmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretecek e\u011fitimler vermek.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk dernekleri, \u00f6rg\u00fctleri ile i\u015fbirli\u011fi i\u00e7erisinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 istismar eden, katleden ki\u015filere y\u00f6nelik \u00fcst s\u0131n\u0131rdan cezalar vermek, indirim z\u0131rval\u0131\u011f\u0131na girmemek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuk bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kurarak \u00e7ocuklara y\u00f6nelik ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilen su\u00e7lar ve \u00e7ocuk haklar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda kapsaml\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar yapmak, alan\u0131nda uzman ki\u015filerin bakanl\u0131k b\u00fcnyesinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131p \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm yollar\u0131 geli\u015ftirmek ve uygulamak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Renkli Yar\u0131nlar \u0130\u00e7in<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yaln\u0131zca bir yaz\u0131da bu kadar \u00f6neri a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kabiliyor, bug\u00fcne kadar ya\u015fanan olaylar\u0131n protestolar\u0131 esnas\u0131nda \u00e7e\u015fitli talepler geli\u015ftiriliyor. Hal b\u00f6yleyken, gereken i\u015fbirlikleri ve sa\u011fduyu sa\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 takdirde k\u0131sa vadede dahi olumlu sonu\u00e7lar \u00e7ok rahat al\u0131nabilir. Uzun vadede sorunlar\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fc kaz\u0131nabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015f ki zihniyet ve tutum bu y\u00f6nde olsun. \u0130ktidar ve sistem sahipleri taraf\u0131ndan rota bu y\u00f6ne \u00e7evrildi\u011finde neler olabilece\u011fini biliyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu sa\u011flaman\u0131n yolu da gelece\u011fimizi kaybetmemek, karartmamak i\u00e7in i\u00e7imizde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6fkeyi \u00f6rg\u00fctl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmekten ge\u00e7iyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rotay\u0131 \u00e7evirmesi gerekenlerin kendi kendilerine bunu yapmayacaklar\u0131n\u0131, aksi durumundan fayda sa\u011flayabildikleri ger\u00e7e\u011fini unutmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Bahsini etti\u011fimiz sorumlu listesi bunu g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne seriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ger\u00e7ek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme ula\u015fabilmek, kirli elleri yok edebilmek i\u00e7in bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okuyanlar\u0131n, ortak ac\u0131y\u0131 ya\u015fayanlar\u0131n elini ta\u015f\u0131n alt\u0131na koymas\u0131 gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kendili\u011finden olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fimiz de\u011fi\u015fikliklerin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011fimiz \u00e7ok fazla \u015fey var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bulundu\u011fumuz her yerden, her \u015fehirden bu talepleri hayk\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, gerek hukuki gerek e\u011fitim y\u00f6n\u00fcnden \u00e7e\u015fitli \u00f6nerileri meclis kap\u0131s\u0131na dayad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ve m\u00fccadelenin ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz sonucu olan zihinsel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcme omuz verdi\u011fimizde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yar\u0131nlar\u0131 daha renkli ve umutlu olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">*Paulo Coelho<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cE\u011fer bir g\u00fcn yolunuzu kaybederseniz bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131n\u2026\u201d* \u00dclke g\u00fcndemi hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7e\u015fitli mecralar\u0131n\u0131 etkileyebiliyor. Okulda, i\u015f yerinde, bayramda, tatilde sohbetlerimiz, \u00fclkenin h\u0131zl\u0131 ve yak\u0131c\u0131 g\u00fcndemleriyle belirlenebiliyor. Eh k\u0131sa s\u00fcrelerde neler ya\u015fam\u0131yoruz ki\u2026 \u015e\u00f6yle bir geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda baz\u0131 ya\u015fanan olaylar\u0131n, s\u0131cak g\u00fcndemlerin tesiri g\u00fcnlere s\u0131k\u0131\u015fabiliyor. Fakat g\u00fcndemi yaratan sorunlar\u0131n devaml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla paralel bir \u015fekilde;&hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":2456,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_eb_attr":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[97],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[577],"class_list":["post-2453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sozumuz-var","author-deniz-uslu"],"authors":[{"term_id":577,"user_id":0,"is_guest":1,"slug":"deniz-uslu","display_name":"Deniz Uslu","avatar_url":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/wp-content\/litespeed\/avatar\/eb34dcef2ba410c5108957cc1d069f7b.jpg?ver=1784370316","author_category":"","first_name":"Deniz","last_name":"Uslu","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":"denizuslu@mordayanisma.org"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2453","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2453"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2453\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2456"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2453"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=2453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}