Meryem Karal\u00f6k, 46, Adana<\/p>\n\n\n\n
17 y\u0131ll\u0131k evlilik ve 17 y\u0131l boyunca \u015fiddet. Alt\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fumu b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fcm ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. 40 ya\u015f\u0131ma geldi\u011fimde bakt\u0131m ki h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u015fiddet g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum, ayr\u0131lmaya karar verdim. Bir ev tuttum ve bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m. Mahkeme \u015fahit olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ret karar\u0131 verdi fakat asl\u0131 i\u015fin eski e\u015fimin herkesi tehdit etmesiydi. Benim a\u00e7\u0131mdan da o kadar y\u0131l\u0131n ard\u0131ndan biriken onlarca \u00f6l\u00fcm tehdidi, onlarca koruma karar\u0131yd\u0131. Fakat be\u015f y\u0131l boyunca pes etmedim ve o beni tehdit ettik\u00e7e numaram\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirdim, \u015fik\u00e2yet\u00e7i oldum ve bu b\u00f6yle devam etti. Yarg\u0131tay\u2019a davam\u0131 g\u00f6nderdi\u011fimiz zaman da bitece\u011finden umutlu de\u011fildim ve \u00fc\u00e7 kere davam\u0131n \u00f6ne \u00e7ekilmesi talebiyle gitmeme ra\u011fmen dava sonu\u00e7lanmad\u0131. Bakanl\u0131klara, bir\u00e7ok farkl\u0131 siyasi parti liderine ve televizyon kanallar\u0131na yazd\u0131m fakat hi\u00e7 birinden d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f dahi almad\u0131m. Bir g\u00fcn k\u0131z karde\u015fim:\u201dAbla, bir de Mor Dayan\u0131\u015fma\u2019ya yaz.\u201d deyince \u00f6yle yazd\u0131m. Ve onlar mesaj\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr g\u00f6rmez d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yapt\u0131lar. Hemen d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yapt\u0131lar. Davam\u0131 sahiplendiler ve m\u00fccadeleye beraber, daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc devam ettik. Bir g\u00fcn duru\u015fmam\u0131 beklerken, eski e\u015fim yan\u0131mdaki polisi avukat\u0131m da sanarak s\u00f6zl\u00fc sald\u0131r\u0131ya ve hakarete ba\u015flad\u0131. \u00c7antam\u0131 ona f\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m zaman ise solu\u011fu tekrar mahkeme de ald\u0131k. Fakat bu sefer ne mi oldu? 2. Duru\u015fmada \u201cerkeklik gururunu incitti\u011fime\u201d kanaat getirilerek 3 Bin TL para cezas\u0131na \u00e7arpt\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131m. \u00dcst\u00fcne Ankara Yarg\u0131tay\u2019dan da ret karar\u0131 gelince eylem yapmaya karar verdim. Avukatlar, h\u00e2kimler 3 y\u0131ldan \u00f6nce dava a\u00e7amayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6ylemelerine ra\u011fmen \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcn boyunca Mor Dayan\u0131\u015fma\u2019n\u0131n deste\u011fiyle adliyenin \u00f6n\u00fcnden ayr\u0131lmad\u0131k. Ve sonunda bana 3 y\u0131l boyunca a\u00e7t\u0131ramazs\u0131n dedikleri davay\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131rd\u0131m ve m\u00fccadeleyi elden b\u0131rakmad\u0131m. \u015eimdi dava tekrar g\u00f6r\u00fclecek. Fakat bunu tek ba\u015f\u0131ma yapmad\u0131m. Tamam, m\u00fccadele ediyordum ama tek ba\u015f\u0131ma m\u00fccadele ediyordum. Y\u0131llarca tek ba\u015f\u0131ma \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p, alt\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcp okumalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131m. Ama Mor Dayan\u0131\u015fma olmasayd\u0131 ne eylem yapabilir ne de bu davay\u0131 tekrar a\u00e7t\u0131rabilirdim. K\u0131z karde\u015flerimin dayan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ve m\u00fccadelemiz ile sesimi duyurdum ve beni, bu adaletsizli\u011fi, \u015fiddeti g\u00f6rmezden gelen erkekli\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 dimdik ayaktay\u0131m.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Meryem Karal\u00f6k, 46, Adana 17 y\u0131ll\u0131k evlilik ve 17 y\u0131l boyunca \u015fiddet. Alt\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fumu b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fcm ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. 40 ya\u015f\u0131ma geldi\u011fimde bakt\u0131m ki h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u015fiddet g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum, ayr\u0131lmaya karar verdim. Bir ev tuttum ve bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m. Mahkeme \u015fahit olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ret karar\u0131 verdi fakat asl\u0131 i\u015fin eski e\u015fimin herkesi tehdit etmesiydi. Benim a\u00e7\u0131mdan da o kadar…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":66,"featured_media":2379,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_eb_attr":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[95],"tags":[440,151,383],"ppma_author":[623],"class_list":["post-2378","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sen-anlat","tag-erkekadaletdegilgercekadalet","tag-kadin-dayanismasi","tag-mor-dayanisma","author-meryem-karalok"],"authors":[{"term_id":623,"user_id":0,"is_guest":1,"slug":"meryem-karalok","display_name":"Meryem Karal\u00f6k","avatar_url":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/wp-content\/litespeed\/avatar\/23494c9101089ad44ae88ce9d2f56aac.jpg?ver=1784192493","author_category":"","first_name":"","last_name":"","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2378","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/66"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2378"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2378\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2379"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2378"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2378"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2378"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=2378"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}