{"id":2375,"date":"2020-04-28T23:16:20","date_gmt":"2020-04-28T20:16:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mordayanisma.org\/?p=2375"},"modified":"2025-03-07T10:48:46","modified_gmt":"2025-03-07T07:48:46","slug":"yoluma-daha-ozgur-daha-farkinda-daha-donusmus-bir-kadin-olarak-yanima-baska-bir-suru-kadini-da-alip-el-ele-tutusarak-devam-ediyorum-ilgin-27izmir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/2020\/04\/28\/yoluma-daha-ozgur-daha-farkinda-daha-donusmus-bir-kadin-olarak-yanima-baska-bir-suru-kadini-da-alip-el-ele-tutusarak-devam-ediyorum-ilgin-27izmir\/","title":{"rendered":"Yoluma Daha \u00d6zg\u00fcr, Daha Fark\u0131nda, Daha D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f Bir Kad\u0131n Olarak Yan\u0131ma Ba\u015fka Bir S\u00fcr\u00fc Kad\u0131n\u0131 da Al\u0131p El Ele Tutu\u015farak Devam Ediyorum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ilg\u0131n, 27, \u0130zmir<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Bu hikaye benimle birlikte direnen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da hik\u00e2yesidir.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evden ayr\u0131l\u0131rken akl\u0131ma ilk gelen y\u00fcksek lisans tezim i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m hasta dosyalar\u0131m oldu, onlar\u0131 ve birka\u00e7 par\u00e7a k\u0131yafetimi al\u0131p 8 ayda \u015fiddetin her t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fcne nas\u0131l maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131ma inanamayarak hem evi hem eril zihniyeti terk ettim. Sonra evimde as\u0131l ben kalmal\u0131y\u0131m diyerek, solu\u011fu emniyette ald\u0131m ve uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma karar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartt\u0131m. Bedenime, zaman\u0131ma, kendime g\u00fcvenime, sayg\u0131ma, eme\u011fime yap\u0131lanlar kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulmal\u0131yd\u0131. \u015eiddetine devam etti ve site i\u00e7inde s\u0131cak suyun ve do\u011fal gaz\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evde aylarca ya\u015faman\u0131n zorluklar\u0131na ra\u011fmen evden ayr\u0131lmad\u0131m. T\u00fcm yasal haklar\u0131m\u0131 kulland\u0131m. Dava \u00e7eki\u015fmeli ne zaman bitece\u011fini bilmiyorum, o soyad\u0131 da kullanmak istemiyorum diye soyad\u0131 davas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131p, bo\u015fanma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeden \u00f6nce sadece kendi soyad\u0131m\u0131 kullanabilece\u011fim davay\u0131 da kazand\u0131m ve \u201cTamam bo\u015fanmay\u0131 kabul ediyorum.\u201d dedirtene kadar bir y\u0131l sava\u015ft\u0131m. Zaman ceza davas\u0131, bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 duru\u015fmalar\u0131 ve s\u0131navlar, sunumlar, doktoraya haz\u0131rl\u0131k aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7ti. \u00d6n\u00fcme konmak istenen her engeli basamak yapt\u0131m ve \u015fimdi hayalimdeki yerdeyim. Bu hik\u00e2ye benimle birlikte direnen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da hikayesidir.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ilg\u0131n, 27, \u0130zmir Bu hikaye benimle birlikte direnen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da hik\u00e2yesidir. Evden ayr\u0131l\u0131rken akl\u0131ma ilk gelen y\u00fcksek lisans tezim i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m hasta dosyalar\u0131m oldu, onlar\u0131 ve birka\u00e7 par\u00e7a k\u0131yafetimi al\u0131p 8 ayda \u015fiddetin her t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fcne nas\u0131l maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131ma inanamayarak hem evi hem eril zihniyeti terk ettim. Sonra evimde as\u0131l ben kalmal\u0131y\u0131m diyerek, solu\u011fu emniyette ald\u0131m&hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":2376,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_eb_attr":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[95],"tags":[639,636],"ppma_author":[638],"class_list":["post-2375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sen-anlat","tag-direnmek","tag-kadinlarin-hikayesi","author-ilgin"],"authors":[{"term_id":638,"user_id":0,"is_guest":1,"slug":"ilgin","display_name":"Ilg\u0131n","avatar_url":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/wp-content\/litespeed\/avatar\/23494c9101089ad44ae88ce9d2f56aac.jpg?ver=1784192493","author_category":"","first_name":"","last_name":"","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2375","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2375"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2375\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2376"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2375"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=2375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}