{"id":2336,"date":"2020-04-28T22:14:34","date_gmt":"2020-04-28T19:14:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mordayanisma.org\/?p=2336"},"modified":"2025-03-07T10:50:44","modified_gmt":"2025-03-07T07:50:44","slug":"kamerunda-meme-utulemeye-ve-cocuk-yasta-evlilige-katlanmaya-zorlanilan-genc-kadin-soruyor-merak-ediyorum-kendi-ailem-bunu-bana-neden-yapti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/2020\/04\/28\/kamerunda-meme-utulemeye-ve-cocuk-yasta-evlilige-katlanmaya-zorlanilan-genc-kadin-soruyor-merak-ediyorum-kendi-ailem-bunu-bana-neden-yapti\/","title":{"rendered":"Kamerun’da Meme \u00dct\u00fclemeye ve \u00c7ocuk Ya\u015fta Evlili\u011fe Katlanmaya Zorlan\u0131lan Gen\u00e7 Kad\u0131n Soruyor: “Merak Ediyorum, Kendi Ailem Bunu Bana Neden Yapt\u0131?”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ngodible* meme \u00fct\u00fcleme vah\u015fetini do\u011frudan ya\u015fad\u0131.<\/p>\n

16 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, bu i\u015flemi ona yap\u0131lmadan \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nce duydu\u011funu, ancak kimsenin niye yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ona a\u00e7\u0131klamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. \u201cBana bunu neden yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 hep merak ettim. Anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m zamansa bunu asla unutamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 biliyordum. \u00c7ok can yak\u0131yor.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u201cO g\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm zaman, kendi ailemin bunu bana neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 merak ediyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meme \u00fct\u00fcleme Kamerun\u2019da yayg\u0131n bir uygulama. \u00dclkedeki gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131n 3\u2019te birinin meme \u00fct\u00fclemeye maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 tahmin ediliyor. Bu oran, 1.3 milyon gen\u00e7 k\u0131za denk geliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ac\u0131l\u0131 gelenekte, memelerin kaybolmas\u0131 ya da b\u00fcy\u00fcmesinin tamamen geciktirilmesi i\u00e7in ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki k\u0131zlar\u0131n memelerinin \u00fct\u00fclenerek ve ovularak d\u00fczle\u015ftiriliyor ve -bazen y\u0131llara yay\u0131lan- belli zaman aral\u0131klar\u0131yla d\u00f6v\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015flemde, genellikle ta\u015f, spatula, havan, \u00e7eki\u00e7, elektrikli \u00fct\u00fc gibi \u0131s\u0131t\u0131lm\u0131\u015f cisimler kullan\u0131l\u0131yor. Memeler d\u00fcz durmas\u0131 i\u00e7in s\u00fcp\u00fcrge ve kemer ile ba\u011flan\u0131yor. \u0130\u015flem genelde anneler, \u015famanlar ve \u015fifac\u0131lar taraf\u0131ndan, d\u00fcz, \u00e7ocuksu g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs\u00fcn istenmeyen erkek ilgisini bertaraf edece\u011fi, tecav\u00fcz ve evlilik \u00f6ncesi hamilelikleri engelleyece\u011fi inanc\u0131yla yap\u0131l\u0131yor. Baz\u0131 ebeler bu uygulamay\u0131 kad\u0131n s\u00fcnneti ile benzerlik g\u00f6sterecek \u015fekilde gelir elde etmek amac\u0131yla da yap\u0131yor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

National FGM Centre\u2019a g\u00f6re, Orta Afrika \u00fclkesinin belli b\u00f6lgelerinde kad\u0131nlar\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131ndan fazlas\u0131 meme \u00fct\u00fclemeye maruz kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngodible ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7ocuk ya\u015fta evlendirilmi\u015f. Hen\u00fcz 13 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken evlili\u011fe zorlanm\u0131\u015f. Babas\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra amcas\u0131 art\u0131k onun evinde ya\u015fayamayaca\u011f\u0131na karar vermi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAmcam, onun k\u00f6y\u00fcnde ya\u015fayan esnaf arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan birine beni gelin vermeye babaannemi ikna etmeye gitti\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBirka\u00e7 kere evlilik fikrinden vazge\u00e7melerini istedim ancak kabul etmediler. Bir g\u00fcn, kocam yan k\u00f6ydeki markete gitti\u011finde yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cGaroua-Boulai\u2019de yakaland\u0131m. Ailem 50 km uzakl\u0131ktaki Zembe\u2019de. Oraya geri d\u00f6nemem \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc beni kocama geri g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrler ve bunu istemiyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meme \u00fct\u00fcleme sadece Kamerun\u2019da de\u011fil, Bat\u0131 ve Orta Afrika\u2019n\u0131n baz\u0131 b\u00f6lgelerinde de uygulan\u0131yor. Birle\u015fmi\u015f Milletler meme \u00fct\u00fclemenin toplumsal cinsiyete dayal\u0131 \u015fiddette ihbar edilmeyen su\u00e7lar aras\u0131nda ilk 5\u2019te oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meme \u00fct\u00fcleme, ma\u011fdurun psikolojik durumunu etkiledi\u011fi kadar, doku zedelenmesi, \u015fiddetli ate\u015f, bir ya da iki memenin birden kaybedilmesi gibi sonu\u00e7lar yaratabiliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Birle\u015fmi\u015f Milletler d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda 3.8 milyon ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131n uygulamaya maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tahmin ediyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Waibai* de meme \u00fct\u00fclemeye ve \u00e7ocuk ya\u015fta evlili\u011fe zorlanm\u0131\u015f. \u015eu anda Kamerun\u2019da bir restoranda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMemelerim \u00fct\u00fclendi ancak o zaman neden oldu\u011funu anlamad\u0131m. Bunun memelerin h\u0131zl\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcmesini durdurdu\u011funu ancak daha sonra bana a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131lar.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c14 ya\u015f\u0131mda evlendirildim ve bir y\u0131ld\u0131r evliyim.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unicef verilerine g\u00f6re Kamerun\u2019un Uzak Kuzey B\u00f6lgesi\u2019de k\u0131zlar\u0131n yakla\u015f\u0131k y\u00fczde 60\u2019\u0131 18 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6nce evlendiriliyor. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 re\u015fit olmadan birka\u00e7 kere evlendirilebiliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu b\u00f6lge son y\u0131llarda g\u00fcvensizlik y\u00fcz\u00fcnden problemler ya\u015f\u0131yor ve 328 binden fazla Kamerunlu ve Nijeryal\u0131 b\u00f6lgeden ayr\u0131lmaya zorland\u0131. M\u00fclteci gruplar\u0131 d\u00e2hil savunmas\u0131z topluluklarda \u00e7ocuk evlili\u011fi ekonomik zorluklar\u0131n bir sonucu olabiliyor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 genelde para veya alt\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sat\u0131l\u0131yor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Waibai \u015f\u00f6yle diyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHamileli\u011fim son derece travmatikti \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6lmekten ger\u00e7ekten korkuyordum.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKocam zaman zaman bana kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddet uyguluyordu, \u00f6zellikle hi\u00e7 param\u0131z\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zor zamanlarda. Tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir\u00e7ok adam, kocalar\u0131n e\u015flerine \u015fiddet uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 normal buluyor ve ben de erkeklerin bana kar\u015f\u0131 cinsiyet\u00e7i davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na maruz kald\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddet Kamerun\u2019da son derece yayg\u0131n, Unicef verilerine g\u00f6re erkeklerin yakla\u015f\u0131k y\u00fczde 40\u2019\u0131 e\u015flerini d\u00f6vmenin makul oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00fcnya Sa\u011fl\u0131k \u00d6rg\u00fct\u00fc\u2019ne g\u00f6re d\u00fcnyada \u00fc\u00e7 kad\u0131ndan biri hayat\u0131n\u0131n bir d\u00f6neminde, \u00e7o\u011funlukla e\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan fiziksel ya da cinsel \u015fiddet g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Birle\u015fmi\u015f Milletler, 2017\u2019de cinayet ma\u011fduru 87 bin kad\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fczde 58\u2019inin e\u015fi ya da bir aile bireyi taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc tahmin ediyor. Bu, d\u00fcnyada her g\u00fcn 137 kad\u0131n\u0131n kendi ailesinden biri taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc anlam\u0131na geliyor ve bu say\u0131 y\u00fckseli\u015fte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

21 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Houreira* da kocas\u0131ndan \u015fiddet g\u00f6rd\u00fc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c16 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken \u00e7ocuk ya\u015fta evlilik ma\u011fduru oldum. Onun ho\u015funa gitmeyen ufak tefek \u015feyler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in kocam beni s\u00fcrekli d\u00f6v\u00fcyor.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Houreira s\u00f6zlerine \u015f\u00f6yle devam ediyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u201cD\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karsam ba\u015fka erkeklerle konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. F\u0131st\u0131k satmaya gitti\u011fimde \u00e7ok k\u0131skan\u00e7la\u015f\u0131yor. Genelde yan\u0131ma oturup bekliyor, e\u011fer bir erkek benimle konu\u015fursa, eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde dayak beni bekliyor\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11 ayl\u0131k bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu ve 3 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir o\u011flan \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan Houreira ekliyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBu konuda konu\u015fmay\u0131 \u00e7ok sevmiyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle \u015feyler ya\u015famak ger\u00e7ekten utan\u00e7 verici, \u00f6zellikle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m izliyorken.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Bu yaz\u0131daki gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n isimleri kimliklerini korumak amac\u0131yla de\u011fi\u015ftirilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Bu yaz\u0131 T\u00fcrk\u00e7eye Mor Dayan\u0131\u015fma \u00c7eviri Komisyonu taraf\u0131ndan \u00e7evrildi. Orijinali i\u00e7in:<\/em> https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/news\/world\/africa\/cameroon-breast-ironing-child-marriage-domestic-violence-a9076011.html<\/a>)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ngodible* meme \u00fct\u00fcleme vah\u015fetini do\u011frudan ya\u015fad\u0131. 16 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, bu i\u015flemi ona yap\u0131lmadan \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nce duydu\u011funu, ancak kimsenin niye yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ona a\u00e7\u0131klamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. \u201cBana bunu neden yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 hep merak ettim. Anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m zamansa bunu asla unutamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 biliyordum. \u00c7ok can yak\u0131yor.\u201d   \u201cO g\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm zaman, kendi ailemin bunu bana neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 merak ediyorum.\u201d Meme \u00fct\u00fcleme…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":2337,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_eb_attr":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[153,185,184],"ppma_author":[573],"class_list":["post-2336","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ceviri","tag-cocuk-istismari","tag-kamerun","tag-meme-utuleme","author-mor-dayanisma"],"authors":[{"term_id":573,"user_id":5,"is_guest":0,"slug":"mor-dayanisma","display_name":"Mor Dayan\u0131\u015fma","avatar_url":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/wp-content\/litespeed\/avatar\/18b1bff8d2c98eaf6f87c388a27f2cfa.jpg?ver=1784033573","author_category":"1","first_name":"Mor","last_name":"Dayan\u0131\u015fma","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":"Contact<\/a>\r\n\r\ndayanismamor@gmail.com"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2336","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2336"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2336\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2337"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2336"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2336"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2336"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mordayanisma.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=2336"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}